9 Signs He’s Not The Marrying Type, According To Marriage Counselors

By Carolin Lehmann

He’s perfect for you… on paper. But there are cracks in the foundation of your relationship that make you question if he’ll ever settle down.

Read on for nine signs he’s just not the marrying type, according to marriage counselors. (Note that this applies to women too!)

1. He acts younger than he is.

“If he still acts like he’s in a fraternity ― staying out all night, drinking too much ― then he’s not ready for marriage. Getting married requires giving up the self-focus and ‘it’s all about me’ behavior. This doesn’t mean marriage doesn’t allow for some ‘me time,’ because it does, but it’s down on the priority list way below being responsible and considerate of your spouse.” ― Kurt Smith, counselor and director of Guy Stuff Counseling & Coaching

2. He lives for the thrill of the chase.

“The beginnings of relationships are inherently exciting with their mystery, romance and untainted passion. After the newness of your relationship wore off, did he seem disinterested, disappointed and ready to move on? Passion develops rapidly but also fades quickly. In healthy marriages, when passion lulls, partners developed intimacy and commitment to Read More

Via:: Huffington Post Women